Well I have finally found the reason, solution, much wanted peace and redemption for victims affected by these types viz – Psychopaths, Sociopaths, Narcissists, Bipolar disorder, Schizophrenia and more.
I have been a victim of a sociopath and it was only God’s grace that set me free. Nothing else can.
Before the must wanted conclusion let me tell you’ll my personal experience in short –
It will be very disturbing initially to even confirm if a person can be classified with any of these disorders. Our genuine love for them leaves us blinded to the fact that we just cannot categorize them. However with time, spiritual intervention and realization will give us the much wanted answers that we have always been seeking all along.
Yes, these people do have a very bad childhood and it is sad in reality, however it is not our responsibility to try and uplift an unruptured soul. We will surely fail at it to a point where it would make us doubt our own self nature. Everyone has a choice to make- to seek positivity, happiness and help in all aspects. Dwelling on a bad childhood is not a good sign. Acceptance is a must and such people just do not give in to change. All they want is to live in their own lost superficial fantasy world as long as it suites them. They are toxic and evil vampires who will put you into a web of misery and cause you only strife.
Initially they will idealize you, study and value you to an extent you begin to wonder why you were so special. You feel a high and like never before. They will confess love too soon, soul ties, true love, deep romance, strong bonds, deep thoughts and this will happen in all forms through exchange of words, gifts and conversations. These people will bring out the best in you initially. Till slowly they being to start the gaslighting and ‘imaginary fantasy’ in our mind of a ‘love story’ with them – None like ever before.
They will then begin to give you a slight insight into their life and quickly cover it up with a greener grass effect.
Throughout the process they are constantly studying our weak points to eventually have the heartiest laugh ever. This is done because they suffer so much deep inside that our happiness, goodwill, genuineness and success is something that they envy secretly. The love was always lust. It’s more of their insecurity which they hide and mask a vibrant, bold, carefree wonderful ideal and perfect character.
Then comes the devaluation phase where they will taunt you, judge you in all ways and criticize you in the sweetest possible way thus making you want to run to them for self pleasure all the more. The truth is that they are so frustrated with themselves that they need a validation for themselves from all sources of supply . They will be immature to play the relationship games of silent treatment, blocking, taunting, triangulation, 3rd party games and more to get their way and can just go to any length possible to have their victims left confused and injured.
Then comes the grandoise attitude, taunting for personal shine, gaslighting, manipulation, lies, indirect runaway from confrontation, self victimization, lack of empathy, lack of remorse, guilt or shame and a final smash of everything into our court in very strategic ways. Notice this is happen much before you even anticipate it and you have just wished that you had a change to say your piece earlier.
The much wanted betrayal and discard has begun and you are left totally shattered wondering and trying your best to pick up the pieces of your life. Your will want to seek answers and a healthy closure but it seems impossible…and then the abuser has got he/her hold over you and it’s a ‘Mission Accomplished’ to them. They will move on just as casually leving you bewildered and also make you feel guilty for your real attributes. They will use smear campaigns and victimization to lure you into harmful thoughts. Most importntly they do not have any identity and will move on in life by stealing your identity and this makes them feel good. You can never have a clarification, reasoning or seek responsibility of actions from these types. A closure with a sociopath is rather not worth having. It’s just best to cut them out of your life completely.
As an add-on look for signs of mental paradoxial signs / dementia in the abuser. They will most likely not have an identity and at most times be associated to objects or organizations where they get a chance to gain control viz – Religions places, Volunteer groups, NGO’s, Pet organizations, Animal welfare groups and more. Their victims will always be the kind and innocent one’s.
Well am here to tell you something special. This is the start of your life. There was a reason for everything and Praise God you were saved from this monster. These people have and will always do this for the rest of their lives. They seek a lifeline by ruining innocent souls. It gives them sad*stic power and a change to see themselves as a better person. It’s not for us to see but the very fact it happened to us goes to show that they are incapable of relationships and this happens to most of their peers. Our genuine self has rubbed onto their totally wicked inner self and this has given them a boost to move on in their life.
THE SECRET LIES IN THE BIBLE IN CHAPTER 1 & 2 KINGS. IT’S CALLED THE “JEZEBEL SPIRIT”. THESE PEOPLE ARE NO DOUBT INNOCENT PEOPLE WHO ARE AFFECTED BY THIS SPIRIT AND IT WANS’T A CHOICE THAT THEY MADE. HOWEVER IT’S A GENERATIONAL CURSE THAT HAS AFFECTED THIS PERSON AND LIKE I SAID IN THE EVERY START – “EVERY PERSON HAS A CHOICE TO MAKE”. SADLY FOR THESE PEOPLE THEY WILL ALWAYS LET GO OF THAT CHOICE, BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE THE NEW GOD/GODDESS IN THE EYES OF PEOPLE CONSTANTLY WANTING APPROVAL, POWER, DOMINANCE & SUPPORTERS. THEY CAN NEVER BE THEIR GENUINE SELF NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE THEY NEVER TRULY REPENT FOR THEIR SINS AND DO NOT WANT TO CHANGE. NEITHER ARE THEY EVER CAPABLE OF LOVING SOMEONE IN A REAL WAY. THEY SUBJECT THEMSELVES TO TORTURE AND VERY CALMLY FLING IT ONTO OTHER INNOCENT SOULS. IT BECOMES VERY IMPORTANT TO SEEK INNER HEALING BY YOURSELF AND SEVER THE UNGODLY SOUL TIE. THIS ENTAILS CONFESSING, ADMITTING, DELIVERANCE AND LIVING A “NEW LIFE”. MAKE SURE TO CLAIM THE PROMISES GOD MADE TO US.
Getting rid of that person in all ways by maintaining no contact and removing / getting rid of / deleting any trace of them is a must. It is not our duty to change them or be their one in shining armour. It becomes more of our responsibility to let go of them, release them unto God and condemn them completely.
We were born to be humble individuals to live in harmony and be self sufficient in all forms. No one deserves an abuser of this sort.
Take time off, it is during this no contact period that you will begin to realize all the red flags and you will get your much deserved answers – Each and every one of them will be answered. The internet space has comprehensive information on ‘The jezebel spirit’ wrt its origin, characteristics, know – how and treatment on the Google pages, forums, blogs, youtube, facebook and more.
Pray over this, get your answer and run and never look back again. These people are just plain sick and cruel. There’s a better and much peaceful life awaiting you.
I would like to close by saying that I fell for a sociopath woman and I was deceived multiple times. I was totally blinded to her false charm and love scam. I learned her completely only towards the end. I gave the relationship everything in it’s true real essence whereas she was callous always and almost always casually tried her “extreme love bombing” techniques in the most appealing / deceiving way. Her confessed deepest feeling of insecurity was wanting to be loved but she wasn’t the type anyone could love because she was too much of a mess to everyone around. She was a split personality, rough, bold, immature, selfish, negative, demeaning, disrespectful, a false self, wicked, arrogant and had traits of schizophrenia. She gradually learned all my weak points and damaged them all the more. I was judged and criticized on my favorite passions. She seemed to be happy for me and complimented me in the most exaggerated way only for me to later realize that she was actually cursing me in her heart. She masked her identity on all spaces creating superiority vibes and confusion around. She created a mess for multiple men by stringing them along, including me. The triangulation technique she used was too good to be true and I happened to face this twice. She was a victim at all times but whenever questioned always twisted and turned everything around. She would taunt men to gain their attention and was a compulsive liar. She wanted to feel like a queen at all times and I later realized that she managed to rope in souls to boost her ego and pride. She would seek attention from suffering souls by offering her help and also through her trade by dealing with pets. Happy for her that it gave her a lifeline to move on in life. That was her only redemption. She did not like the idea of humanity and only affiliated herself with people she could use, take, smear and discard. She has conned men including me in the worst possible time / situation / way only to seek the much wanted attention. A closure with such types is just never possible and the end will make you feel that you were the one who was the much dreaded sociopath. Later after a long time I realized that she came from a family affected by a generational curse of violence, divorce, hatred and unhappy remarriages. (The spirit of Jezebel) She didn’t get along with her own mother well. I couldn’t blame her for hating men all along having been brought-up in an unhealthy environment but the truth was hidden in her dark, unruptured soul. I realized that as a normal individual, I least of all deserved to be subjected to someone like her. She just didn’t want to change and her only method of survival was to empty her sadness and frustration onto others which would give her a sense of sad*stic relief. She did not have a real heart, felt no empathy, no guilt, no shame and no remorse at all. The height was that she eventually questioned me on my manliness. Long later I realized that she had unhealthy relations with almost everyone. She was twisted in her mind and weird to no extent. She claimed to be naive, wise, intelligent, innocent, understanding, truthful, faithful and more but was exactly the opposite. I never had a decent conversation with her at all. It was just never possible.
Very honestly I liked this girl a lot and wanted to change her life by simply loving her naturally in a real way but she always wanted it to be superficial and structured to her likings. Her presumptuous and dangerous master crooked mind is something I could never deal with. I failed at trying to save her only to get the worst of it and have my self shattered. It ended with confrontation which they most dread and till the very end she twisted events in her favor and had a master backup to redirect her actions onto me. The truth is that she did like me and so did I, but her miserable attitude and fake self brought me to a conclusion that all she wanted was to smother me and that she was thoroughly envious of me. It was lust at her end and I was a fool for having loved her and wanting to change her life. When I confessed to her that I was hurt by her words & actions, she was rejoicing in joy and boldly admitted that I was hurt. This is where I finally lost it, it gave rise to my righteous humane anger, followed by a decent closure thankfully and I Praise God for gifting me with wisdom and sanity and the post peace of having being delivered from this cruel monster and demonic woman.
Today I am set free of the misery she came along with and am a new creation. I am back to my usual happy outgoing self and am enjoying life to it’s fullest. Ever since I’ve stopped all correspondence / contact with her, I’ve been blessed with the finest, real and most authentic things/people in life. I can’t wait to love someone deserving and experience the best that life has to offer. I will maintain my self-respect and dignity and not mention her where-a-bouts. Leaving this woman has opened new doors for me in my business, family & friends life, my self and everything that I look up to. After all that I have faced I have forgiven myself and her and sincerely hope that she seeks the kingdom of Heaven to a point where she learns to be a real authentic person and that she changes her ways and not continue to destroy souls. I hope she finds her happiness in all walks of life even though she’s been a pain to me and hurt me. I also hope that God saves these kind of people for all their ‘crimes’ and that they don’t torture other innocent loving people. I’ve forgotten her completely only by the grace of God. I hope this article brings peace to those affected by sociopaths.
Much Love,
Calvin Brako.
(+91 9619474238) India.
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